The Car Ride Rule: How to Support Your Young Hockey Player After the Game

For many young hockey players, the ride home after a game can be more stressful than the game itself. In the Our Kids Play Hockey episode titled “The Car Is Not For Coaching,” Twig and Biscuit author, Lee Elias, and his cxo-hosts discuss how well-intentioned feedback during this time can inadvertently add pressure.

  • Create a Safe Space: Use the car ride to listen rather than critique. Let your child share their thoughts and feelings about the game.
  • Celebrate Effort: Focus on the positives, such as effort and teamwork, rather than just the outcome.

  • Be Present: Sometimes, a simple “I loved watching you play” is all they need to hear.

    • Bottom Line: The moments after the game are an opportunity to reinforce your support and love, helping your child develop a healthy relationship with the sport.

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